I ran into this problem hard while learning Rails, and a full 99.9% of tutorials out there have you using generators rather than learning how it works. As a result, I didn't learn Rails for ages, writing it off as magic beyond my ken since none of them were teaching me what I thought I needed to know.

The tipping point for me was actually progressing through these tutorials a few times.

In Ralis land, creating a new page results in no less than 3 files being touched. A new view and controller, and a modification to routes.rb so the page can be hit. If those pages need to interact with the database, you also need to create a model and likely a database migration to write your new tables. Once you get comfortable with the ecosystem, you stop seeing the generators as newbie crutches and start seeing them as serious time savers. It's like you're learning a Rake-based metalanguage that spits out Ruby and ERB code.

It's much less time consuming to just delete any extra boilerplate than to make all those changes by hand.

That said, if you dig simplicity, then things like Django and Rails (especially Rails) will be huge turnoffs. The magic is their selling point :)