> I want us to transcend all the categories.
I don't think that's a happy outcome. Identity is important.
Identity could be personal. I think on this matter quite often. It would be off-topic to ponder on this at length here, but I can summarise saying: I think categories and identity are different, and tye former takes away from the latter, instead of adding to it.
We dont work to be happy. We work to earn money. Also, women are not baby factories. Just like we are not sperm dispensers.