How faking your feelings at work can be damaging

Re:How faking your feelings at work can be damaging by maxxxxx on Wednesday June 20, 2018 @01:45PM (#17357701)

I am generally very calm and measured but I sometimes deliberately get angry and it seems to make me heard. I do this maybe once or twice a year and only in situations where I am 100% sure that my point is correct.

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Re:How faking your feelings at work can be damaging by twic on Wednesday June 20, 2018 @03:35PM (#17358920)

I have had colleagues a bit like this. You spend two years working with this calm, intelligent, sensible person, so when they finally do get angry, you stop and pay attention.

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Re:How faking your feelings at work can be damaging by maxxxxx on Wednesday June 20, 2018 @09:24PM (#17361315)

I think it also works in relationships. A lot of people let things fester for a long time. I think a good blow up from time to time clears the air often. That is if you let it go afterwards.

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