I have had similar responses on occasion when I bring up what happened to me in Jr. High with a sub. Eventually I decided that waiting for stigma and toxic ideologies to disappear from society wasn't the best use of my time. Instead I decided to start a charity against sexual assault and focus on healing through a positive outlet.

You might ask them this: if a woman has an orgasm while being raped — which happens! — does that mean it wasn't really rape?

The body has its own responses which are not always aligned with the wishes of its owner.

It happened to me by a family member. Today She still denies it