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Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by astura on Friday June 08, 2018 @04:26PM (#17269396)
You're getting downvoted, but I am not sure that's really fair.

I've been thinking this topic today. I happened to lose a (young) family member to suicide a couple days ago and, shit, that bothers me immensely.

Every time the subject of suicide comes up the first thing that is said is "call the hotline," however, in the last couple days, I have been questioning if suicide hotlines are evidence based. I have zero idea if the topic even has been studied, or even if it could be studied. I wonder if our resources can and should be better allocated. I wonder if people are calling suicide helplines instead of calling their doctor.

Or even people are saying it just because it makes them feel good. Because preventing suicide is actually hard and telling someone to call a phone number is easy.

I'm just pondering right now, I have no answers.

Personal story: I called a suicide hotline once and it was extremely unhelpful. It was the opposite of helpful, it actually made things worse.

Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by delbel on Friday June 08, 2018 @06:38PM (#17270298)
The Fremont bridge in Portland had a sign with a # for suicide hotline, and it was the wrong number I believe for over a decade. Only when a road crew maintenance guy had to take it down for repairs did somebody check. It wasn't even in the news, I just happen to talk to one of the workers who told me.
Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by ohtwenty on Friday June 08, 2018 @06:26PM (#17270238)
This got me curious, so I looked a few things up on pubmed. Here's some articles that piqued my interest:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/24086443 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/24163237 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22320194

Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by djajshgsjja on Friday June 08, 2018 @06:23PM (#17270222)
I’m sorry for your loss. The same thing happened in my family. It gets better with time.
Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by wglb on Monday June 11, 2018 @08:06AM (#17283549)
It gets better with time. I am not convinced that this is the case.
Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by djajshgsjja on Thursday June 14, 2018 @06:05PM (#17315852)
I can’t promise that it’s the same for everyone. But for me, the pain faded. Thinking about it still brings up some emotions, but so much else has happened since then that the loss is nowhere near the forefront of my mind.