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Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by idbehold on Friday June 08, 2018 @03:28PM (#17268908)
Do you know of something more effective for the same cost?
Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by e1ven on Friday June 08, 2018 @03:34PM (#17268969)
Sadly, both statements are true -

Call Centers are not particularly effective. It's also true that there aren't widely available good options.

It's a difficult situation, and the tools to address it are inadequate.

Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by RobertDeNiro on Friday June 08, 2018 @05:34PM (#17269898)
Posting an anonymous comment on Reddit? I don't know, at this point anything is as effective as that. I'm just tired of seeing these hotline numbers shared across all forms of media as if they were the solution to everything. Real therapy, as far as I know, is the only effective solution. There's no low cost solution other than maybe trying to form deeper relationships with the people around you.
Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by phil248 on Friday June 08, 2018 @06:14PM (#17270168)
It sounds like you do not know much about the topic, but still felt compelled to contradict the most common suicide prevention advice in a public forum while offering no evidence.

Maybe not a great thing to do on a high-traffic website on the day of a high-profile suicide.

Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by RobertDeNiro on Friday June 08, 2018 @07:01PM (#17270424)
> not a great thing to do on a high-traffic website on the day of a high-profile suicide.

It's the only time people seem willing to discuss suicide. A week from now everyone will have forgotten that suicide is a real epidemic. I'd rather see people discuss real solutions instead be of endlessly repeating the same pointless things.

Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by Magmatic on Friday June 08, 2018 @07:25PM (#17270550)
And I think people, including the person you responded to, would be open to that discussion if you had in any way supported your arguments with facts. If you want to propose "real solutions" provide some supporting evidence for why suicide hotlines do not provide good value for cost and what alternatives do.
Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by delbel on Friday June 08, 2018 @06:21PM (#17270209)
Cognitive Behavior Therapy is scientifically proven to work. Basically any CBT book on amazon on the subject, look for best sellers, read reviews - $3.99 plus $1.99 shipping is your cost. Another book, The Power of Now I personally recommend. Everything else you need is in the KJV.
Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by astura on Friday June 08, 2018 @08:09PM (#17270735)
KJV?

Has self-directed CBT actually been studied?

Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by delbel on Friday June 08, 2018 @10:36PM (#17271211)
Yes, most of the books start off listing the studies and the results. I seem to remember the best seller one, Feeling Good, actually goes into the history and discovery, including the actual tests and results incrementally, although I don't have my copy immediately available. When I say scientifically proven, I mean it. If it doesn't work, the researchers would honestly like to learn about your situation and why it didn't work.
Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by astura on Saturday June 09, 2018 @09:22AM (#17272880)
You didn't answer the question. Were these studies done on people who were self directed? "here's the book, have fun, we'll follow up in a year."

As far as I understand most people receiving CBT who have been studied have received it in a professional setting with weekly meetings.

Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by delbel on Saturday June 09, 2018 @11:19AM (#17273434)
Yes, I did. CBT is done self directed. In a professional setting with somebody is possible, but it is more like giving you homework. I have never been to a group or "professional" In the studies (I believe to be in Feeling Good but it could have been in a dozen other books I read) they split up groups an gave CBT training to one and the other one was a control. However, getting to that study there were a series of other studies of ideas (which had to be changed because of the results) that lead up to CBT. I seem to remember the author talking about going to conferences and how they changed their ideas as they broke down what the models.

Then yes, there was actually a study of the book Feeling Good (kind of meta), and told to read it with a checkup every 6 weeks just like you guessed it in the quote. There are other CBT books that are smaller and to the point, more tactical approach to learning the methods (I think one is called Learning CBT) of Feeling Good. The second half of Feeling Good goes into drugs, which at the time was written no long term studies had been done or possible. From my personal research, these drugs do not work and cause more damage then good. I have found that through suffering and depression, and then working my way out of it, I believe I am better off then just taking a drug. I feel they are supressing some kind of natural force that is needed to build character, but for some people they are needed as a "backstop" to get out of a hole. On another note, depression has grown several folds since the introduction of antidepressants. I do not even consider that there is actually a thing as a drug that can do what they claim, but that's my personal belief.

Re:What to Do When a Loved One Is Severely Depressed by grzm on Friday June 08, 2018 @08:38PM (#17270843)
King James Version.