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Re:Anthony Bourdain has died by sbenitoj on Friday June 08, 2018 @10:01AM (#17265440)
My mother committed suicide 8 years ago, and this is something I’ve spent an inordinate amount of time thinking about and trying to understand (in part to ensure I never suffer the same fate).

For anyone who has struggled with depression or severe anxiety, if you haven’t read the book The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk, I encourage you to read it as soon as possible — it’s one of the best, most approachable, resources out there to understand not only many of the roots of depression, but many strategies to actually overcome it (it’s very different from traditional talk therapy, which is mostly focused on getting people to cope with their past trauma rather than resolve it).

https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/01...

Re:Anthony Bourdain has died by mindgam3 on Friday June 08, 2018 @01:51PM (#17267952)
+1 for The Body Keeps the Score. One of the most useful books on overcoming trauma I've ever read. The idea of Developmental Trauma Disorder is so much more constructive than other models.

So many of the things we call "diseases" can be traced to trauma. "Mental injury" may be a more useful construct than "mental illness". In the same way that your body can heal from a femur fracture, your psyche can heal from a trauma-induced mind fracture.

Re:Anthony Bourdain has died by sbenitoj on Friday June 08, 2018 @06:35PM (#17270281)
Any modalities in particular you found beneficial from The Body Keeps the Score?
Re:Anthony Bourdain has died by mindgam3 on Friday June 08, 2018 @07:35PM (#17270601)
More than any specific modality, what I got from the book was confirmation that the way to heal developmental trauma is to create a safe space and then to engage with it. As opposed to seek to hide it or cover it up pharmaceutically as recommended by Big Pharma.

Practices I have found to be useful in dealing with childhood physical abuse and chronic emotional abuse:

- sauna/cold plunge (incredibly useful way to trigger fight or flight and learn to deal with conditioned fear response)

- pushups, pullups, yoga

- breath awareness and compassion meditations

- metric shit-tons of journaling

- reading stories of trauma survivors

- psychoanalysis, up to a point

- talking to friends (the right ones)

Re:Anthony Bourdain has died by sbenitoj on Friday June 08, 2018 @09:48PM (#17271064)
Thanks! I’ve been doing yoga, EMDR, and Somatic Experience and have found all helpful in different ways.
Re:Anthony Bourdain has died by dgzl on Friday June 08, 2018 @10:05AM (#17265476)
As someone who's currently going through a wave serious depression, I'm curious about this book. Thanks for sharing.
Re:Anthony Bourdain has died by occam65 on Friday June 08, 2018 @10:38AM (#17265825)
Hey, I don't know you and you don't know me, but I'm here if you'd like to chat. Hit me up.
Re:Anthony Bourdain has died by saw-lau on Friday June 08, 2018 @01:37PM (#17267806)
Likewise. I'm devastated about the news, and it's brought back my demons to the fore.
Re:Anthony Bourdain has died by betterworldb on Friday June 08, 2018 @01:45PM (#17267891)
I'm definitely going to check this book out. Thanks for the recommendation.
Re:Anthony Bourdain has died by njoro on Friday June 08, 2018 @10:28AM (#17265723)
I remember finding this talk quite insightful: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOAgplgTxfc