I really cannot wrap my mind around the lack of empathy required to say "if you can't handle it" to people being called racist slurs. I presume you have never been called a racist slur. I presume you have never been demonized for your skin color - how can you even begin to know what that's like?
Ignoring the hatred that people on 4chan have for black people is not trivial - obviously this is more affecting for a person if they're black.
Have you read any testimonials about racism, or how it's made folks feel, or anything like that? There's many books out there, and I think your lack of empathy comes from ignorance. Reading some first-hand experience may make it more clear.
Doesn't that remind you of something?
I don't care how conservative my opinion is. I don't equate the quality of arguments and opinions with which adjectives can be used to describe them.
Also please point to which decade it was where the n-word was "disassociated from hate". When has the word not been used in a hateful way?
Calling people the n-word provokes outrage because it is an outrageous thing to do. The word has a history and we all know it.
> People are imploring you to accept that times are changing and the word is being disassociated from hate
The only people imploring me of this are random folks on the Internet. I talk to black folks all the time in the real world, and you know what? It's still not ok.
They can't? Almost no matter who you are, somebody somewhere is musing about your death, if you can't handle that in words, I doubt you could live much, regardless of your identifiable characteristics.