I've noticed that, these days, I only find myself worrying about careful hand-formatting when the auto-formatter is doing an inadequate job. e.g., IntelliJ's default Java standard makes far too much stuff optional, which is another way of saying that it is full of cases where it forces me to make the decision.

Looking through Black's rules, it seems to me like the rules it's implementing are comprehensive and specific enough that I'd probably end up with few, if any, situations where I even want to take control. And I'd gladly give those up in return for not having to wade through so much diff clutter when I'm doing code reviews.