Re:Ask HN: Client won't pay me my invoice and disputed Paypa...
by Regardsyjc on Friday May 25, 2018 @04:02AM
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Adding to this. My first job out of college was with a con artist who is probably still conning people today.
There were contracts, everything seemed reasonable, and then the excuses for non payment started piling up. By month 3 I still had seen nothing. Even after a year very little had been paid. Years later, thousands of dollars still unpaid and just lies and excuses.
I still hate asking for money that's due to me and not getting paid for the work you did is a real shitty place to be. This person did the same thing and berated me when I said I would take legal action. When I did take legal action, their entire company was a scam and I couldn't even deliver a court notice because they were hiding out of the country.
Every time I see this person's name it angers me because I just want to metaphorically burn their business to the ground. When I blocked this person and erased them from my life, I became a lot happier. I took it as a learning lesson and developed an archetype for psychopaths to avoid. Some day they will get their reckoning but it's not worth my time or mental health.
Tl;dr: The impacts to your mental health might be many hours over years. It was for me anyway.
There were contracts, everything seemed reasonable, and then the excuses for non payment started piling up. By month 3 I still had seen nothing. Even after a year very little had been paid. Years later, thousands of dollars still unpaid and just lies and excuses.
I still hate asking for money that's due to me and not getting paid for the work you did is a real shitty place to be. This person did the same thing and berated me when I said I would take legal action. When I did take legal action, their entire company was a scam and I couldn't even deliver a court notice because they were hiding out of the country.
Every time I see this person's name it angers me because I just want to metaphorically burn their business to the ground. When I blocked this person and erased them from my life, I became a lot happier. I took it as a learning lesson and developed an archetype for psychopaths to avoid. Some day they will get their reckoning but it's not worth my time or mental health.
Tl;dr: The impacts to your mental health might be many hours over years. It was for me anyway.