If couple has kids and those kids find someone in a local tribe then both tribes and lone families would have worked. In effect you are trying to redefine his argument not just in terms of recorded history but also both couples not an individual one.
You're attacking a straw man. Of course a couple can reproduce if they are in proximity to a tribe. But that still requires a tribe. It is a couple in isolation that is not viable.
QED they can reproduce in isolation.
The point is: for your scenario to play out, a tribe has to exist (and it has to be close enough for the couple's offspring to find it, but that's a detail). No tribe, no viable reproduction. Hence, the tribe is the minimum viable unit, even if it also occasionally supports an isolated couple somewhere in the vicinity.
Yes, humans are somewhat like ants in that they are usually social. Humans are adaptable enough to survive in pairs, though lack of specialization means they won't necessarily live the most comfortable life, so it would be an unusual choice. But there's nothing elective about ants' socialism. So in the end I don't think your argument works.
No. Those species have specialized adaptations that allow them to live in isolation, which humans lack. And it's not just humans. All simians lack these adaptations. Indeed, the vast majority (perhaps all -- I can't think of a single counterexample) of non-carnivore mammals lack them.