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Re:Japan's rising sex aversion (2012) by brad0 on Saturday May 19, 2018 @10:36PM (#17110876)
> The definition of “sexless” set in 1994 by the Japan Society of Sexual Science, a professional organization that deals with all aspects of human reproduction, states that this is a condition occurring when someone has had “no sexual contact for a month or more.” Sexual contact itself includes a host of things, such as “kissing, oral sex, petting and sleeping together naked.”

Geez, I’ve been taking a break from women this past year but after reading this it hits kinda hard. According to this I’ve been sexless for a loooong time.

Is not having sex for a month really that uncommon?

Re:Japan's rising sex aversion (2012) by tachyonbeam on Saturday May 19, 2018 @10:50PM (#17110910)
I don't think it's uncommon, but either way, does it matter? I've taken some breaks too. I think it's important to find ways to be happy by yourself from time to time, and to learn to deal with loneliness. Hopefully go back to dating later with a healthier attitude (ie: wait for the right person, instead of just getting with someone because of loneliness).

Here are some articles I found with stats about frequency among adults:

http://www.issm.info/sexual-health-qa/what-is-the-normal-fre...

https://vitals.lifehacker.com/here-s-how-much-sex-everybody-...

Re:Japan's rising sex aversion (2012) by dnautics on Saturday May 19, 2018 @11:43PM (#17111083)
About 30% of single males have not had sex in six months. It's slightly less for women, btw, 25% iirc. Rates are higher among the educated. Don't ask me how I know that.
Re:Japan's rising sex aversion (2012) by 55555 on Saturday May 19, 2018 @11:46PM (#17111092)
Stats are probably similar for those who have been married more than a few years.
Re:Japan's rising sex aversion (2012) by dnautics on Sunday May 20, 2018 @01:36AM (#17111412)
according to the figure I saw for married men it's about 10% and married women, oddly, 5%.
Re:Japan's rising sex aversion (2012) by brad0 on Sunday May 20, 2018 @12:48PM (#17113618)
Could this be an error in self reporting or that women are more likely to cheat in marriages?
Re:Japan's rising sex aversion (2012) by jcadam on Saturday May 19, 2018 @11:04PM (#17110951)
For a single guy I would think it's not uncommon. Though, I do find it bizarre that a large number of young adults would be uninterested in sex.