Re:A female engineer's opinion on why there are fewer women ...
by Draiken on Wednesday May 09, 2018 @04:30PM
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I'd also add partners and gossip into the mix.
It's very easy for a third party to see a man and a woman having regular workplace relationship and associate that with flirtation and even cheating.
Of course this varies wildly in intensity depending on companies/partners, but it almost inevitably generates gossip. It's even worse if you're above her in the company hierarchy.
I know I would probably stray away from attempting this sort of work relationship with a woman for both my job and my partner's sake. It's a really thin line to navigate on both cases.
I've seen people get fired because a woman hinted that a man harassed her when I knew it was not the case.
But as said on another comment, this was true way before #metoo, that just brought even more visibility to this.
It's very easy for a third party to see a man and a woman having regular workplace relationship and associate that with flirtation and even cheating.
Of course this varies wildly in intensity depending on companies/partners, but it almost inevitably generates gossip. It's even worse if you're above her in the company hierarchy.
I know I would probably stray away from attempting this sort of work relationship with a woman for both my job and my partner's sake. It's a really thin line to navigate on both cases.
I've seen people get fired because a woman hinted that a man harassed her when I knew it was not the case.
But as said on another comment, this was true way before #metoo, that just brought even more visibility to this.