Re:Ask HN: How to deal with a dysfunctional relationship wit...
by throwaway9934 on Tuesday May 08, 2018 @08:51PM
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We're self-funded so there is no higher power to call upon.
It's a cooperate or die situation, and yes we need a miracle.
I've taken advice today based on what I've read here and I somehow managed to speak frankly but with empathy. For the first time in I can't remember how long we managed to get along and talk about the problems. It felt like a good change. I don't know how much of it was me, him, or the situation.
I don't expect that to last indefinitely but if we can survive this I think I can create a win-win situation and find myself a way out.
It's a cooperate or die situation, and yes we need a miracle.
I've taken advice today based on what I've read here and I somehow managed to speak frankly but with empathy. For the first time in I can't remember how long we managed to get along and talk about the problems. It felt like a good change. I don't know how much of it was me, him, or the situation.
I don't expect that to last indefinitely but if we can survive this I think I can create a win-win situation and find myself a way out.