Re:Why Is It Hard to Make Friends Over 30? (2012)
by vorhuts on Monday May 07, 2018 @11:54AM
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Is life about happiness or is life about pursuing a meaning (you define) and as a by product, happiness is attained sometimes?
Re:Why Is It Hard to Make Friends Over 30? (2012)
by noxToken on Monday May 07, 2018 @12:50PM
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Not happiness - enjoyment. The two are closely linked, but you don't inherently have to be happy to get enjoyment out of something.
What I mean is that you don't always have to hit max to be satisfied. Don't get so bogged down in the details that you come up for air after you've hit 50.
They later get two internship offers: one from a no name local place where the internship is data science (which they want), but the other is at Googazon Faceple chasing birds off the property. The student inevitably has a meltdown, because they want the prestige of a big four.
This isn't to say that there is inherently anything wrong with trying to min/max life. You'll have a better time (to a point) when you make more money. But let's not forget that if you're spending 5 years in misery for little gain, that's 5 years you aren't getting back.
You only get one life. Enjoy it.