I don't think it's being dismissed as due to it, so much as it's acknowledging the near-necessity of it to attain success.
Gates went to a high school where the parents pooled money in order to buy mainframe time for their kids. Gates was seeing a therapist, which helped him focus and mature faster. He had the support to start a fairly wild venture with a friend.
Gates is incredibly intelligent, focused, disciplined, and was in the right place at the right time.
If I were in his shoes, I wouldn't have succeeded. Not because I lacked the resources, but because I'd have found the idea of writing a BASIC interpreter to be boring and wouldn't have seen it through. But I also probably wouldn't have had access to the technology necessary in the first place...
If something is neither necessary nor even close to sufficient for success, how can you dismiss someone's success as due to it?