Accusing people who are not pro-government of hypocracy because the use public services is absurd.
You cant not pay my taxes and opt out of government services.
Is there a country in which spend the majority of your time? If yes, then that's your country. Don't like it? Move to another one or get politically active.
> That's a manmade concept that is forced upon me against my will.
Nearly everything in our day-to-day lives is a manmade concept – that doesn't make it any less real.
That changes regularly enough. Just because i like a place doesn't mean it's my country.
I think you're conflating geography with political structures. I feel at home everywhere I've been and i don't quite understand the insatiable jingoism because all places and people are great and not so great in equal measure for various reasons. That said I'm not naive enough to expect it to change and if it were to change i can't really even see a pathway for that to happen. It only takes one person to spit in the punch to ruin it for everyone.