To me you ignore too much students' responsibilities when it comes to their education. I suppose to you I seem to ignore too much teachers' responsibilities when it come to education. I don’t think that I do. I invest as much time/energy as I can to their learning. But they have to be willing to do some work.

You say it isn’t magic and seem to imply it’s easier than I think it is. Based on my experience I think this is naive. But maybe I’m jaded. Two students this semester told me I’m the best math teacher they ever had. One told me I’m the worst.