We have a project manager who asks "are you done, or done done?"

The two are very different.

When I was young and impressionable it was done done. My last contracting gig the project manager (who was honestly too good for the customer and noped out after about 14 months and told me countless times “you can’t fix stupid”) started saying done done done.

And still people would say, when asked if they were done done done, “yes, but...”

At some point the developer is done with a task even if the task isn’t done with them. And they will make any rationalization necessary to take partial credit for completion.