I keep my textbooks wrapped in book covers made from grocery bags. I keep my feet in protective shoes most of the time, especially if it's cold or raining outside. I'd put a car cover over my car, if it wasn't a rusty pile of junk (i.e., a Chrysler).
Is the fact that they use a case evidence that the iPhone is fragile? This is where you are trolling. As I pointed out we use a lot of cases for a lot of situations.
I never understood why people get so angry when their car get scratched (isn't that what the car "shell" is for? Better a scratch on the wall than on on the engine!) but people do. So why could they not be keeping their phones in a protective case to avoid scratches? Or (just to give you another alternative) to clip it to the side? Or to personalise it (phones are very personal items, much more so than computers, for example).
So yeah: is it ironic that the iPhone is considered beautiful and yet people put it in a case? Sure. Is it an indication that it is fragile? Nope.
I didn't think it was controversial that it's an extremely fragile phone. There's a cottage industry of people who repair broken screens, and there are repair kits available from several different sources for every model of iPhone. In my experience, if you drop it without a case onto a hard surface, you have about even odds of breaking it. I don't remember exactly, but my first one broke the second or third time I dropped it. (I wasn't careful with it at all.) I was so careful with my second iPhone (which pissed me off in itself that I had to baby a phone that way) and managed to avoid dropping it for months, but the very first time I did, it broke. My third has been in its case almost constantly since I bought it, but I did drop it without the case once, and it didn't break. So I had two breaks in four or five hard drops (mostly chest level onto concrete or blacktop,) versus zero breaks in innumerable drops for my previous phones.
Just putting a case on it solves the problem completely, but that brings me back to my original point: if the vast majority of users use it with the case (and that's certainly true here) then it doesn't make any sense to judge it by its size and aesthetics without the case. Plus, for all the users that resort to a case, Apple did not completely control the phone's aesthetics and user experience, which isn't necessarily a bad thing but is certainly noteworthy since it is contrary to conventional wisdom about Apple and the iPhone.
So why could they not be keeping their phones in a protective case to avoid scratches?
I can't speak for anyone else, but that doesn't make any sense to me at all. The case will get scratches, and you'll still have a scratched-up-looking phone. My case has a rubber ridge around the screen that was apparently munched on by some kind of insect last time I went backpacking. That's just the way things get when you use them. If people want a pristine-looking phone, they'll have to buy a new case every few months.
In general, I see almost all iPhone owners using cases, and with other cell phones, I see a clear minority using cases, mostly girls with decorative cases or (like you mentioned) IT geeks who like to clip them to their utility belts. From that I conclude that most iPhone users who keep their iPhone in a case would not do so if they had a different phone, and would prefer not to use a case with their iPhone, but feel compelled to do so for practical reasons.
I'm not hating; I'm just pointing out the logical problem behind praising the robustness and external appearance of a device whose external appearance you rarely see in the wild because it isn't robust enough to use without a case.
Think about it. As beautiful and sleek as the iPhone is without a case, most iPhone owners prefer to put a case on it. Every time you see a person with an iPhone in a case, Apple failed in the eyes of that person to create a better product than iPhone-in-a-case. The beauty was not enough to make up for the fragility, so the user gave up all the external beauty to get back the robustness that Apple traded away to make it beautiful. If you get used to thinking of the naked iPhone as inferior to iPhone-in-a-case -- and if you respect the judgment of the users, you have to -- then it doesn't make sense to admire its design so much.