Quit Social Media, Your Career May Depend on It (2016)

Re:Quit Social Media, Your Career May Depend on It (2016) by hathawsh on Wednesday March 28, 2018 @01:10PM (#16699585)

When I want to reply to posts like that, I ponder until I can think of something to say that is short, simple, and kind. My goal is not to correct them but rather to build a relationship of trust. If they learn to trust me, they are far more likely to join my side on important matters.

Also consider that most people don't have your writing skills and will get frustrated when they try to engage in a debate with you in writing. Most people are more comfortable when speaking (especially face to face) rather than writing. That's why most of the real political discussion continues to happen offline, even today.

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Re:Quit Social Media, Your Career May Depend on It (2016) by ballenf on Wednesday March 28, 2018 @01:23PM (#16699744)

Very smart approach. It's human nature to react poorly to being publicly criticized or humiliated (in case of the crystal healing stuff).

Given that, I also strive to direct message the poster and ask the leading questions or point out the problems. They might even take down their post or alter it. You have to be willing not to get any credit and go unseen, which probably feels alien to many social media users.

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