All I am pointing out is the inequality of gender cannot be entirely eliminated nor can it alway be blamed on women or men. Women are not men and men are not women.

Men's role as expendable defender is not a role hoisted by women, but rather through evolution. The oppressor, if any, is nature for making us that way. In that sense, men cannot blame women.

It also work in the opposite direction, there are things that women probably should not do when she is having a baby.