They track you whether you join or not.
There's often an alternative. Myself, I left FB behind a few years back and subsequently lost contact with a lot of people. I didn't try hard to find alternatives, though. Just the same, I've been far more happy and present without it.
There are browser plugins which automatically delete cookies when a tab is closed. They work wonderfully as automatic log out by default.
I'm not using facebook a lot as of late. I just scroll through my feed and close the app when I'm bored. I don't click, share, write posts anymore...
I could delete facebook, but what's stopping me from doing it, is sharing of my vacation photo's with my friends and different groups that our friends use to discuss different plans (as where we can go in the weekend or organise a vacation together...)
Is there a good alternative for these 2 things:
- Online album for photo's? The same goes to: where can I see pics of my friends? - Site/app to organise things (whatsapp is enough to organise small things (evening events, dinners, ...), but no trips...)
For discussing plans, you have the following options:
1. Group email thread
2. Group text (either SMS or even a chat app with E2E encryption)
3. Conference call
4. Slack group
5. Group IM (Hangouts, Jabber-based thingy)
6. Private Trello board (can you use Asana for the same thing?)
I still use FB because I have a lot of international friends, but removing the FB app and replacing it with the site.
I only use Messenger for about 3 people right now, so that's going soon too.
Unrelated to Cambridge Analytica, I started de-escalating my Facebook usage a few months ago.
First, I turned off notifications on my phone for Facebook and Facebook Messenger. (I've had e-mail notifications off for years.) Next, I deleted the Facebook app from my phone. Then, I deleted the Facebook Messenger app from my phone. Finally, I force myself to log out of Facebook on my laptop every time I visit.
This combination strikes a better balance, for me, between the connecting benefits of Facebook and its addictive time- and emotion-sucking downsides.