Regarding the "way of life", I find it funny it's considered a problem while I know so many friends, who nobody would say they are not integrated, who live just the same. They do seasonal winter work in tourism in mountains, seasonal summer work at beaches, and travel in between with their home/truck to visit friends and family, or just visit new places. I know three of them who have been living that way for 15 years, and nobody finds anything to say about it (except parents, of course, who would like to see them have "a real job").
Are you sure, deep inside, there is absolutely no problem of racism implied in your problems with rromas? (no need to answer this question, that's more something to ask to yourself)
In general population, we just lock them up, try to isolate from old friends and get their life back on track. For gypsies, their whole culture is immersed in that. We can either change their culture or leave them as-is. But if we leave them as-is, they stay outcasts. And then we get blamed for not integrating them :)
Racism in what way? That we don't want to let gypsies live in antisocial ways? I confident I don't have any problems with gypsies as long as they live like productive members of society. And I hate stealing drug-dealing scums equally no matter what their ethnicity or culture is.
If a gypsy gets clean and wants to join the society, nothing stops them. If a gypsy comes in regular clothes, it'd be hard to tell them someone is a gypsy and not just darker skin.
Of course, it's easiest to use racism card all the time. But sometimes the problem is the unfortunate culture.
We tried all kinds of things. Yes, we tried to get their kids to go to school. We trie to build a police outpost in their village, burned in a week :) There're NPOs working specifically with them. The only problem is lack of will on their end.
As for your upper level comment, we can either leave them as outcasts' clan or make then integrate. In their current shape, they clash with modern society too much. Stealing, begging, dealing drugs, living in unregistered shacks, squatting public parks while keeping children away from education is what put them into their position in the first place. Either we look them up for all felonies they do or they have to learn to live with the rest of us. Their "special" way of life is not something that can continue and be respected in any way.