Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)
by jacob019 on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @09:51AM
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How did you get in with your kayaking group?
Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)
by collyw on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @10:07AM
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I started at a club before university.
I was involved with the university club for a while, until my level was beyond wanting to help teach beginners and push my own limits somewhat harder.
Travelled and worked as a rafting guide after university, and I quite literally have kayaking friends all over the world now.
As I have grown older I realised that my university friends were mainly a bunch of snobby middle class boring people. They had a careers, while I explored life a fair bit more (and still manage to have a career after taking a few years out).
The guys who I have met through kayaking - an activity where we have quite literally saved each others lives on occasion - are far more interesting and fun and more real friendships.