Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012)

Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012) by self_assembly on Tuesday February 20, 2018 @07:11PM (#16425614)

In your father's case it might be because he has no other emotional outlet. But as a male with a decent social life I still don't feel comfortable making my friends an emotional outlet. I'd rather not talk to them about things that are frustrating me or making me feel stressed. So my significant other still gets the brunt of that.

In fact most of my male friends also don't get too deep in discussing their feelings. So it might not just be a lack of friendship, but a deeper problem which is men having a hard time discussing their emotions with others.

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Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012) by watwut on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @02:53AM (#16427722)

There is talking about being angry primary with wife and then there is not talking much except seemingly random outburst of anger or other unpleasantness. I think that parent talked about the latter, when you are annoying and mean without talking about why, but expect other people to be nice to you because you feel bad.

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Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012) by Kluny on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @11:29AM (#16430619)

> I think that parent talked about the latter, when you are annoying and mean without talking about why, but expect other people to be nice to you because you feel bad.

Correct. My dad is not angry with my mom or any particular person. He just gets cranky and grumpy if my mom doesn't socialize him.

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