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Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012) by Myrmornis on Tuesday February 20, 2018 @06:48PM (#16425453)
Great comment, I think that needed saying.

I don't doubt the gender asymmetry that you imply; do you care to speculate about why it exists among middle-aged people?

Re:Why is it hard to make friends over 30? (2012) by ianai on Wednesday February 21, 2018 @12:08AM (#16427002)
Society gives adults little time to themselves. Most of your adult, waking hours are at work. But it’s imperative to keep some distance between work and personal life. So a large majority of your adult life is blocked out from genuine social connections.

Our days and hours are very scarce resources...almost all taken from us. I think the Spanish accommodated this by decreasing their daily work hours. If the US did that the US would employ more people, more meaningfully, and benefit from increased social “health”.