Why I don't use my real photo when messaging with customers on my website

Re:Why I don't use my real photo when messaging with custome... by mschuster91 on Friday February 16, 2018 @09:40AM (#16392597)

> Men generally don't catcall or fondle strangers' bodies either.

But vastly more men catcall or grope women than the other way around. That's the issue.

> It's a general projection, "why would anyone do that?".

To assert power and dominance (both attributes that are part of the common definition of "masculinity" in western societies).

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Re:Why I don't use my real photo when messaging with custome... by TheAdamAndChe on Friday February 16, 2018 @11:15AM (#16393360)

You say the last sentence like the concept of masculinity varies greatly among different societies. Are there any societies in the world where men aren't more assertive, aggressive, and power-seeking? I kind of thought they were fundamental psychological differences between men and women overall[1].

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_differences_in_psychology

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Re:Why I don't use my real photo when messaging with custome... by ben_jones on Friday February 16, 2018 @10:54AM (#16393175)

I believe it happens more to women. But ask an attractive male bartender or waiter. We shouldn't hand wave those abuses away either.

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Re:Why I don't use my real photo when messaging with custome... by mschuster91 on Sunday February 18, 2018 @09:53AM (#16406312)

> But ask an attractive male bartender or waiter. We shouldn't hand wave those abuses away either.

Was a male bartender for nearly two years. I agree it happens from time to time that customers try to score with you, but it's really incredibly rare compared to the stuff my female colleagues had to endure (maybe twice over my career vs daily).

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