It's very uncivil to assume that people who disagree have not "read up" on whatever topic. I have read up on Monero, and know what it's offering. To me, those features have no value, and thus, this hard fork happening quite often is not worth it.

Why did you ask the question (“why don’t you use...”) if you already knew the answer then? The fact that you asked the question in such a broad way suggested you hadn’t done the basic research.