I can edit multi-thousand line (5k+) Org documents just fine. So it's probably the major mode or some minor mode(s), or a combination.
Anyway, the workaround I have for the occasional time I have huge things to paste is to switch the buffer to fundamental-mode before pasting, and then switching back.
As a curiosity, what kind of things are you pasting that are that big?
I’ve found that the reason why large files are slow is due to formatting and linting and not the size of bytes on disk.
With fundamental mode and no line numbers it feels as fast as Vim or Sublime to me.
I regularly used other editors on C files with 30k+ lines, 15 years ago when machines were slower.
Emacs' real weakness is an over-reliance on regexes for highlighting and poor integration with sources of semantic and symbolic information for richer highlighting, editing and browsing. That, and synchronous operations for the same.
but folks here are talking about _each_ line >1k characters, not total number of lines in a file...