Yes, if someone is conservative and is also openly advocating for white supremacy and also wants to escape the label of racist and also is saying 'what about white men?' they should do so openly.

Not all conservatives are advocating this, not all of those who do want to escape that label, and not all of those who are both talk about what about white men.

If you are all of those things, you are an extreme minority, one that I doubt is present in this discussion.