I'm here to make it happen! (if only in a very small way) I'd say that people feeling a huge loss may want to reconsider whether they want volunteering strangers and probationers looking at their relative's undergarments, judging them by how many of their clothes are moth-eaten, how big their pants are, etc. Having done it I can tell you when my parents pass away, I will be donating a few select articles of clothing and trashing the rest.