Re:Mothers who regret having children are speaking out
by briankelly on Friday January 12, 2018 @12:38PM
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We're mostly in agreement. By "fuck it" I meant "fuck it" to having kids, not towards contributing to the greater community. Anecdotally the "get a dog"/DINK married couples I know are probably the most active in community building, local political and social issues, helping out the underprivileged in their area... all that good stuff.
Perhaps it is both? These things tend to be cyclic. "Fuck it" tends to breed conditions where more people say "fuck it."
That said, I do believe in something like a "get a dog and help care for the community" mentality that's not a "fuck it" at all.