Re:The day I accidentally killed a little boy
by feral on Tuesday January 09, 2018 @04:33PM
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Being bullied sucks. I will teach my kids to use any tools available to stop them being bullied. If resorting to authority solves the problem, then thats great. That's how you deal with bullies, by using whatever works; not by following some arbitrary code about doing things yourself, or not tattling etc. (Note though I live in Ireland where involving the police sounds pretty bizarre/extreme).
Re:The day I accidentally killed a little boy
by jotm on Wednesday January 10, 2018 @02:09PM
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That is exactly my point - kids need to learn to fight back, and if a punch won't do it, calling everyone from the parents to the principal to the police sure will. Bullies need to learn this isn't an ape tribe, the earlier the better.
And as adults, every day can be a battle, if you can't hold your own, you have societal resources to back you up.
Of course, this needs to be taught as being a last resort, otherwise they may grow up to be bullies themselves. Having children is hard.
People get bullied all the time. Even as adults, just in different forms. Resorting to authority early on is not the best solution.