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Re:Stanford CS007: Personal Finance For Engineers by swsieber on Monday November 27, 2017 @07:43PM (#15793245)
You go on lots of dates.

Of course, that's no guarantee - I belong to a religion where dating is a thing, and we believe marriage can be eternal, so there is a big emphasis on dating. And during my college years I was in an apartment of 6 and it seemed like every semester I'd have an engaged roommate - and I went on lots a dates, but didn't get married until I graduated.

So, yeah, go on lots of dates, and you might get married early. If not, don't sweat it. Just make sure you marry somebody who will work to have a good marriage.

note: I (and my culture) are definitely outliers - we tend to go through the courtship process relatively fast - I married my wife about 9 months after first meeting her.

Re:Stanford CS007: Personal Finance For Engineers by linkregister on Tuesday November 28, 2017 @12:06AM (#15794584)
What religion?
Re:Stanford CS007: Personal Finance For Engineers by swsieber on Tuesday November 28, 2017 @09:31AM (#15797560)
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (LDS for short, but more widely known as 'Mormons')

In regards to dating, I was living in Provo, UT at the time, which over emphasized the dating aspect - I'm not sure how emphasized the dating aspect is outside of the U.S. / Angelo Saxon culture areas.

What I find rather interesting though is that despite placing more importance and weight on marriage, we tend to go through the courtship process faster (under a year is not uncommon).

Re:Stanford CS007: Personal Finance For Engineers by linkregister on Tuesday November 28, 2017 @04:40PM (#15802058)
That makes sense. Once a couple finds that their world view, values, and personalities are compatible, there is little else to evaluate.