>>Nobody will talk with me.

Strongly consider that this is not a problem in tech, but an individual one. I put in years at Microsoft, Amazon, and the dreaded startup row in Pioneer Square. I have a diverse group of friends from tech to retail, I watch football weekly with random people, have no problems striking up conversations at bars, etc.

Most of the complaints I hear like yours are eminently traceable to individual personalities that are overrepresented in tech, not people in general.