"Are we even talking about the same thing? There are absolutely groups that commit more crimes than others. Do you honestly need a citation for a claim like, "young men commit more crimes than elderly women?""

You should be able to cite something for that claim, yes. But you know we're not talking about those kinds of groups; we are talking about the ones that are highlighted on sites like Breitbart.

"Feminism is bigoted (but probably correctly so) for highlighting men as the reason there isn't equality."

Feminism doesn't highlight men. Feminism highlights power structures, many of which are put in place by certain men.