Bread used to go dry after a day, now it lasts for a week... That is not normal.
It's nowhere near as bad as it was, I can eat wheat with no problem, but can't eat a lot for a long time.
But, imported Italian pasta doesn't give me a problem.
I've noticed even now with US wheat I can get constipated, but not with the Italian pasta.
I've heard so many things, like US wheat has 4x the gluten, or is sprayed with RoundUp after harvesting to dry it out, so who knows, but there does seem to be something different.
Ascorbinsäure (E 300) Natrium-L-Ascorbat (E 301) Calcium-L-Ascorbat (E 302) Lecithin (E 322) Guarkernmehl (E 412) Mono- und Diglyceride von Speisefettsäuren (E 471) Milchsäureester von Mono- und Diglyceriden von Speisefettsäuren (E 472 b) Wein- und Essigsäureester von Mono- und Diglyceriden von Speisefettsäuren (E 472 f) Saccharoseester von Speisefettsäuren (E 473) Zuckerglyceride (E 474) Polyglycerinester von Speisefettsäuren (E 475) Natriumstearoyl-2-lactylat (E 481) Calciumstearoyl-2-lactylat (E 482) L-Cystein (E 920)
So basically, I eat what I know is safe for me. If there's something that appeals a lot, I may test a little.
It took years for it to be diagnosed, partly because doctors weren't considering for a while, but also because it can be elusive -- might it be possible that any tests doctors made on your SO were false negatives? It's not uncommon unfortunately.
Also, a surprising number of things contain gluten unexpectedly. Some toothpastes for instance. Vinegars. Lemonades. So perhaps your SO's paradoxical outbreaks are compound effects of "hidden" gluten she has consumed over the day.
There are also coeliac's sufferers who have a tolerance to low amounts of gluten in that they don't feel distress. They are threatened by the same health risks as those who feel pain though (such as increased cancer risk).
Again, not armchair-doctoring here, I just want you to have extra information which might help you both understand this better.
So when I do have an outbreak despite trying to be careful, I am never sure whether it invalidates my hypothesis about the cause or indicates I just wasn't careful enough.
Her doctor has labelled it as gluten sensitivity, but we're well aware that it's not really clear she has any such thing, or if such as thing even exists. The FODMAP/fructan stuff sounds promising, but one common source of FODMAPs is garlic, and she adores garlic and eats it with everything in vast amounts which 1) strongly suggests that at least some FODMAPs are fine for her and 2) makes her extremely reluctant to try a FODMAP free diet.
The whole this is baffling. She clearly doesn't have coeliac disease, small amounts of gluten are (normally) fine, large amounts of things containing gluten are not fine, very similar things without gluten are fine, but something other than gluten that is consumed even when gluten is being avoided is not fine, at least some high-fructan/FODMAP foods are fine...I feel like I'm missing a piece of the puzzle. My current pet theory is that it's a reaction to at least two different substances, but what?
For now she just avoids gluten and (mostly) avoids outbreaks. It's confusing but it's an easy coping strategy.