Size/tolerance/strength-of-drug are irrelevant to contact high, but relevant to a second-hand inhalation high.
Given the nature of contact highs, strength of the odor of an inhalant might be relevant, but that's not necessarily related to drug strength.
AFAIK, second-hand inhalation highs are basically impossible other than lots of people smoking around you in an enclosed space which prevents dissipation.
Personally I've found it to have an effect when indoors, even if there's an open window. (I don't live in an especially warm climate, though. Windows are not typically open all that far.) I had a friend who was a very heavy dope smoker and I'd often feel a bit stoned after leaving his house. Nothing major, just as if I'd had a few drags on a joint.
(I used to be a heavy smoker myself, years ago, so the sensation is quite familiar to me.)
I don't know why it's such a strange idea that this could happen. You are after all breathing in marijuana smoke. Second-hand or not, over a few hours it seems to add up.
It's you. I'm an average sized guy with low tolerance and contact high is a real thing. I wonder what effect it would have on kids nearby...