The difference between SQLite and Postgres would be that more than one client can connect over the network to PG (or most any other sql db out there really), while SQLite is meant to be embedded, which, if you already have LevelDB working (as is the case in Bitcoin Core), wouldn't be all that different.
What does that mean? Like any RDBMS, SQLite is interfaced with in SQL, but can store and process binary data just fine.
Its like saying WordPress users should not setup a database. There is a transactional usecase for this - having a high performance, ACID datastore.
And you are mistaken: here's a comment by achow101 of Bitcoin Core - https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=1394020.msg14159449#...
LevelDB being stupid is one of the major reasons that people have to reindex on Bitcoin Core crashes. There have been proposals to replace it but so far there are no plans on doing so. However people are working on using different databases in Bitcoin Core and those are being implemented and tested.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Bitcoin/comments/6z776p/breaking_bi...
What doesn't help this is LevelDB's transaction format: when you update the utxo set, you want to do this atomically (otherwise you may end up with a corrupted state). To do so, you start a DB transaction (do not confuse this with Bitcoin tx, this is just how you build a change set before pushing it to disk), update the change set then commit the tx. With LevelDB, as long as the transaction is live, the entire changeset will remain in RAM (usually a DB engine writes the changes on disk as you provide them, then updates internal pointers at commit time to apply the change), basically double dipping on the RAM hogging and I/O inefficiency
If you want blockchain stats, postgres is great, but for a node you just need to be able to look stuff up by its keys. Leveldb was made for that and it's good at doing it.
I don't know these attacks, but it seems you don't really need ACID that badly, most stuff is append only and once appended it never gets deleted.