Re:How Emotional Labor is Dragging Down Gender Equality
by saint_fiasco on Thursday September 28, 2017 @05:39PM
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Because it was expensive and it goes against his pride to pay so much money for something he can do himself. Maybe he cared a lot about his self-image as a self-sufficient most-definitely-not-a-spoiled-rich person.
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Re:How Emotional Labor is Dragging Down Gender Equality
by jdmulloy on Friday September 29, 2017 @10:54AM
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"He told me the high dollar amount of completing the cleaning services I requested (since I control the budget) and asked incredulously if I still wanted him to book it."
In the article she mentions that she controls the budget, so it was probably over the budget he had to work with.
Re:How Emotional Labor is Dragging Down Gender Equality
by ZenoArrow on Thursday September 28, 2017 @05:46PM
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I'd suggest that's a massive stretch considering the lack of details about the husband's attitude towards money in the article. The only relevant information was him finding one particular quote too high. I don't think you can extrapolate a pattern of behaviour from that single data point.
Re:How Emotional Labor is Dragging Down Gender Equality
by saint_fiasco on Thursday September 28, 2017 @06:00PM
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Throughout the whole article, the author gives the impression that her husband is a stereotypical man. According to stereotypes, typical men don't want to call "the guy" to repair things when they break, especially when it costs a lot of money.
To be honest, the author's culture is alien to me and I only have stereotypes (TV and movies, mostly) to go on.