"Linear Algebra Done Right" is a fine book but its enduring popularity leads people to recommend it as a universal default answer.

The parent asked if there was a LA book that covered the material in the same style as 3Blue1Brown's videos. If that's the criteria, Sheldon Axler's book isn't the best book. One can compare a sample chapter to the youtube videos and realize they use different pedagogy:

http://linear.axler.net/Eigenvalues.pdf