In the article, it was stated that there is a relationship here. Children are much more likely to be successful in live if their parents were married.
>the author [..] would attribute everything bad in society to the decline in things she holds valuable. It's part of the definition.
No, that's just a strawman.
Some things are zero-sum games, or at least don't scale to everyone getting the same benefit.
I guess zero-sum is not the correct term; there ARE ways we can improve the sum total quality of life in our country and planet, but we have to really think about what it would mean as the plan scales to everyone.
I think she made a critical assumption that "ability to create economic output" is a proxy for "ability to lift people out of poverty". I consider that statement to be much more reasonable than its negation.
I'm not claiming that it will do better at taking care of the poor. I'm claiming that poor members of that culture will be better able to help themselves.
Look, the only people who think America was better off in the 60s/70s are the ones who benefitted from the systemic discrimination inherent of that era. It's perfectly reasonable for them to feel that way, and I'm not even saying I blame them for feeling left behind. Is America actually better off today? It depends who you ask.
It's just not intellectually very interesting to talk about. All she's doing is imposing cherry-picked aspects of her chosen value system as objectively "better" while ignoring the whole point that any definition of "better" relies on a subjective personal value system to begin with.
This is honestly the critical point: our culture defines how we value things. Some cultures are not bothered by things like social welfare or socialist policies because the base unit of society is considered to be the family rather than the individual. Cultures like this may value things like "familial harmony" more than "individual prosperity".
So it's obvious that someone like the original author -- who likely grew up in this "bourgeois culture" -- would attribute everything bad in society to the decline in things she holds valuable. It's part of the definition.
As a counterpoint, American culture is much better for the individual than it was 30-40 years ago for anyone who isn't a straight white male. Those people have the viewpoint that things have improved. Bourgeois values aren't meaningful to these people because they never really applied.
So really, we're back to where we already knew we were: globalization had winners and losers. The losers were primarily located in the western middle class (i.e. the bourgeois class).