Re:Is Romantic Desire Predictable? Machine Learning Applied ...
by prawn on Friday September 01, 2017 @12:27AM
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Is someone shy and embarrassed in that context also likely to be similar when making new friends, negotiating in a business context, etc? The people I know who have been reserved at first, have generally been more reserved in all situations.
That might be more attractive to other shy people, I'd guess.
Re:Is Romantic Desire Predictable? Machine Learning Applied ...
by pbhjpbhj on Friday September 01, 2017 @05:37AM
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I'm immensely shy but relatively good at pretending I'm not. I can't imagine finding that characteristic attractive? I suppose some people want a wallflower?
Do other shy people look for a partner who is shy?
Of course, a first date is also a pretty weird setting. The advantage is, it lasts long enough that there's a chance the "shy and embarrassed" can wear off, and the more normal person can come through.