Really? You think that this is exclusively a matter of hygiene and style? I don't know what's worse, that you're so misinformed about the existence of white privilege, or that you feel comfortable trying to bring some edgy socio-racial nonsense into this conversation.

> he dresses well, has good hygiene, is educated, well off, and speaks politely

Have you seen the videos of two people, one white, and one black, who are all those things being treated radically different by various different groups?

For example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jf5TEoo-EY0

It may not only because he is white, but it is a significant part of the equation. Let alone the socioeconomic things that cause educated and well off to be things that white people have greater access to.

They've got to inject politics when they can.

I mean, sure it can't be other factors (such as social conditioning, how much does he pose a threat, that the party people were actually pretty open). /s

The whole bringing up race is silly. If it is about race and they mention it, they should also be aware that one of the places this took him was in Iowa. His skin color would pose issues in particular neighborhoods in Chicago. They would be less willing to inviting him in or treat him with hospitality.

And if you're not virtue signaling, be sure to constantly say everyone else is doing it, to signal your own superiority.

your reality seems to make you think that 'virtue signalling' is a thing. you keep using that phrase in your comments on posts.