The Science of Passionate Sex

Re:The Science of Passionate Sex by fundabulousrIII on Thursday August 03, 2017 @10:56AM (#14920097)

To be absolutely honest I gave up on the idea of really good sex after 45. Enjoy your twenties and thirties. If you are in good shape in your 40's and aren't terribly experienced, ok..you may have some good sex.

My definition of good sex is uninhibited and athletic with a committed emotional component.

There is a 'spiritual' aspect to sex that I have not experienced much but that is because it seemed laborious and counter-intuitive.

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Re:The Science of Passionate Sex by srrge on Thursday August 03, 2017 @11:08AM (#14920222)

I am 42 and having the best sex of my life with my wife married 16 years ago. The book The Enlightened Sex Manual [0] is a great ressource on that matter.

TL;DR of the book: ejaculate less often, be more awake during sex.

[0] https://www.amazon.fr/Enlightened-Sex-Manual-Sexual-Superior...

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Re:The Science of Passionate Sex by fundabulousrIII on Friday August 04, 2017 @01:46PM (#14930475)

If I married a woman 15 years younger than me and then kept the interpersonal tension high it would probably be great sex when it happened. I don't care for the drama and the WTF 'gtfo' nights when you are involved at that level.

The whole ejaculate less and be more awake thing I can scarcely contemplate seriously. If all it comes down to is satisfying your partner while wide eyed and eager for 'great sex' you are sadly mistaken and won't convince anyone other than sad sacks looking for formula.

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Re:The Science of Passionate Sex by wsc981 on Thursday August 03, 2017 @11:00AM (#14920150)

  "There is a 'spiritual' aspect to sex that 
  I have not experienced much but that is because 
  it seemed laborious and counter-intuitive."

Just wanted to say this sentence made me smile :)

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