Not sure about KDE, but Fedora's version of GNOME definitely works better than Ubuntu's version of GNOME. Because of their valiant efforts to keep Unity from changing at all for six years, Ubuntu's desktop has a peculiar hodgepodge of software versions and unnecessary patches. There's a sense of teams of developers pulling in opposite directions from each other with your computer straining in the middle. Hopefully will get better in a year or two. On the other hand, a lot of what's been going on around GNOME has been about how stuff fits together, along with backend changes that have been getting more and more polished in Fedora but aren't really there in Ubuntu yet. Kind of depends on your system (and whether you have strong opinions about search-as-you-type), but in my own experience I've found that Fedora just feels sturdier as a result. More designed, in a number of ways.

Also its boot splash is the coolest. That's probably the real reason.

Does Fedora's GNOME hold up better in terms of performance? The animations on my Ubuntu GNOME setup (in particular when launching overview) get noticeably janky with more than just a handful of windows open.

Alas, haven't noticed much difference there. Chances are you'll find yourself in a Wayland session, so that may change things a little bit one way or another, and there's definitely some ongoing work to make animations better, but I think you'll probably have the same problem. (There's some nice stuff coming down the tubes, though).

Gnome is just total garbage as is windows 10. They both drove me to OSX which I admit merely carries the crown of being "the least crap".

I really want gnome2 back but fixed and as a first class citizen, not a fork that the big vendors wish would go away. That had some mileage.

I love macOS. It's a Unix system, with a fantastic GUI, well-integrated applications, an ecosystem that is rich and vibrant, and a command-line system the is extremely usable, also with a rich ecosystem (homebrew, macports, etc)

For me, after 10 years of trying to make desktop Linux work the way i wanted it to, macOS is everything I was looking for.

Gnome decided that they had no desire to make a usable DE. They took everything that made it good, threw it out the window, and went as far as they could to make it unusable.

KDE is just a clusterfuck. 2-3 system preferences panels, confusing options, and way too much gloss (glow, transparency, etc).

I spent a long time with tiling window managers, trying to roll a system that felt comfortable and usable to me. And for the most part I succeeded. But the lack of integration with applications is really what ruined it for me. I want a good email client, an address book that can have arbitrary amounts of phone numbers and email addresses per entry, and the ability to give those arbitrary names. I also want my email, address book, and calendar to be aware of each other and play well together. I want a nice way to sync all of that to my mobile devices. I want an experience that feels coherent, instead of something hacked together with bailing twine.

Don't get me wrong. I love Linux. For servers, I would never choose anything else (well, maybe FreeBSD). But it seems like over the last decade, distro developers and desktop environment developers have gone out of their way to sabotage their own efforts and make their software as unappealing as possible.

macOS is not configurable in key ways, so it isn't very usable unless you happen to find the one, unchangable macOS way to be the best. One Apple Way indeed.

It's also, fundamentally, closed. In this era of NSA wiretaps and everything else, that's just not acceptable. I have no idea what's in macOS, and I have no confidence Apple will do anything except give the NSA what it wants. With Linux, the attacks are much less obvious.

Fair points and I agree with all of them.

One killer for me is entirely disparate from yours and that it is pretty damn difficult to drive macOS from the keyboard.

In your opinion, why do you think so many people continue to use Desktop Linux?

Perhaps it's hope that things will eventually get better. That's one thing that kept me hanging on for a long time. The problem is that so many project seem to be asymptotic. The developers get to a point where the software is almost ready for prime time, or is getting really good, and then trash it, start over, or decide to switch direction. Or the dev team falls apart, and you get 3 forks out of the project that never go anywhere. It seems like no one ever wants to actually finish anything. And it gets tiresome.

Also ideological reasons, which I totally understand. I prefer FLOSS options when possible, but I'm not dogmatic about it. I understand a lot of people want to make sure every bit of software they are using is open, and I totally get that.

I mean, I still love Linux a great deal, and if DEs were less shit, and applications were more integrated, I would still be running Linux, or would return to it. But I suppose it's simply a matter of what people are comfortable with.

Use dwm. Alternatively "emacs -fs".

There is a system for you: Emacs.

Xubuntu to Fedora XFCE spin was entirely unexciting in terms of change, I like unexciting when it comes to the OS I use for my livliehood.

Gnome 3 is still a dumpster fire and KDE got so bad as packaged that the devs felt the need to do Neon.

KDE hasn't been good imo since 3 and Gnome since 2.

I'm an XFCE user because of the Gnome 2 debacle though I've considered MATE a few times there isn't anything about XFCE remotely bad enough to make me seriously consider a switch.

The Mate desktop is pretty good. It's Gnome 2, maintained and polished, and ported to gtk+3 in the latest release.

But there are a few better options than the latest KDE or Gnome. These projects have built houses of cards in their attempts to be the biggest and user-friendliest, sacrificing too much stability and quality.

I love Windows 10. I run the pro version and I develop cross platform web and mobile apps with it.

What went wrong for you?

My biggest problem was that I had to turn off Defender because it was causing some delays with the real time scanning.

Ads. Mostly for Microsoft stuff that I don't and will never want. That alone is fairly bad. Even after spending a bunch of time fixing the OS there were still a few. Privacy concerns (ditto).

The updates are a real problem, just all around. Final straw was when one added Outlook back to my start menu.

For all this I got an OS that, actual objectionable things aside, is less pleasant to use than Win7. I'm out. First time I haven't had Windows on something since 3.1.

[edit] by "added to my start menu" I meant "pinned to my task bar"

Try something simple like i3

I would, but I just don't use my home desktop enough to get used to anything too esoteric. I'd never remember the keyboard shortcuts and such. I just need to run some GUI utility programs, manage files, launch some (Steam, GoG) games, and manage simple network file sharing (Samba mostly). Anything else (and some of those things, to an extent) I can do from the command line. At work and at home I do Real Work™ on MacOS, so that's where I spend ~95% of my computer time.

If I started using Linux desktops most of the time again, I'd go back to what I found to provide the best experience: minimal everything, and manual config of practically the whole system past the base OS (and even some of that). So yeah, i3 or similar would be a likely choice, and probably Arch or Gentoo for the distro (used to love Gentoo).

As a user of i3, it is anything but simple. Outside the standard DEs, you vastly complicate things like power, network, and display management. It's possible to build out a fully functional environment with i3, but it is far from simple.

For the pieces you mention, I use tlp, connman and xrandr. Yes they have a small learning curve and I wouldn't recommend them to everyone, but they are stable and not likely to change (whereas Apple/Microsoft/Redhat are constantly reinventing their UIs).

Building out a desktop environment from ones own choice of components is much more aligned with the Unix philosophy.

I don't disagree that building your own DE is a fantastic way to operate, but the point remains that it is in no way, shape, nor form simple.

It's taken years for my own collection of tools to stabilize enough that it isn't painful to juggle ethernet/wifi/mbim connections. So that my displays are properly laid out (automatically) when I get to the office and plug in my monitor. So that my laptop consistently sleeps when I close the lid, instead of continuing to run in an enclosed bag. So that GPS on my cellular card is usable at the same time as an internet connection. So that Java applications run properly (don't forget to tell your window manager to lie about its name!).

Now that I've wasted so much time over the last decade tweaking and tuning this environment to make it stable and mine, I wouldn't give it up for the world -- and suspect I can't give it up at this point without massive changes to my workflows.

You are quoting me out of context. I originally said i3 is simple in a reply to a post complaining about KDE and GNOME, both of which are hugely complex installations of numerous libraries and services. So complex in fact, that they cannot be made to work reliably. Granted i3 provides substantially less functionality, but this comes from being simple.

Your examples above are mostly common configuration issues, easy to find with Google. Even a Windows user would likely need to Google many things (e.g. disabling forced updates, privacy settings, registry hacks).

I'm also skeptical that Gnome or KDE will make it significantly easier to solve such configuration issues. Do they even allow settings to be easily moved to another machine? Unfortunately Linux in general will always need some tweaking to work with specific hardware.

You provided absolutely no context to go with what was quoted.

You replied suggesting a specific window manager (a single component within a desktop environment) to a post lamenting the rough edges in popular modern DEs. You made no indication that your recommended replacement offers no way to hot plug a monitor, connect to the internet, or even launch an arbitrary application without installing and potentially configuring additional packages. These are very basic features folks have come to expect in a DE.

Making this sort of recommendation is throwing the user headfirst into a painful situation likely to give them an extremely negative impression of i3.

> You provided absolutely no context to go with what was quoted

Not explicitly, but I never said configuring or using i3 was simple. It is a very valid point, but is does not refute the fact that i3 is itself simple.

> You made no indication that your recommended replacement offers no way to hot plug a monitor, connect to the internet, or even launch an arbitrary application

I should have written more originally yes, but I have since given my recommendations for these. So why bring it up again?

> Making this sort of recommendation is throwing the user headfirst into a painful situation likely to give them an extremely negative impression of i3.

This is Hackernews and I was replying to knowledgeable posters. I think it is safe to assume they will look into it first without getting into a "painful situation".

Although you do raise some good points, I feel it is your posts that have given an overly negative impression of i3.