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Ask HN: How do you deal with depression?

The question is pretty straight-forward. I'm currently dealing with lots of pain and guilt from breaking up with a long-term girlfriend and leaving her with massive student loan debts. I'm having trouble focusing, losing weight, etc.

Aside from medication (I'm on some), how do you deal with pain/guilt/depression? This industry can be high-stress and we can all be hard on ourselves from time to time. Just interested in different coping strategies. Thanks.

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Re:Ask HN: How do you deal with depression? by muzuq on Friday July 28, 2017 @10:49AM (#14874636)
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=14800579

Thread on Coping with Loneliness that I asked awhile ago, has some very valuable and applicable answers. I'm sorry I cant be of more help.

Re:Ask HN: How do you deal with depression? by altotrees on Friday July 28, 2017 @10:50AM (#14874640)
Do not apologize, this is an excellent resource. Thanks so much.
Re:Ask HN: How do you deal with depression? by angersock on Friday July 28, 2017 @11:10AM (#14874797)
> long-term girlfriend and leaving her with massive student loan debts.

Are those her debts? If so, that's not your fault or problem.

Re:Ask HN: How do you deal with depression? by altotrees on Friday July 28, 2017 @11:42AM (#14875061)
Yes, they are her debts. It is still hard.