250k a year can afford that. Private school is $50k, a vacation home is $24k, vacations are $15k, $50k savings is bs and you know good and well that no one does that while trying to make a presentation of themselves, fancy restaurants are $200 a night so 20k, expensive shows are $200 each so 20k, and a million dollar home is only 60k.

so 50+24+15+20+20+60=189 Oh shit look at that, there is room for savings/taxes too!

(numbers are yearly cost, not monthly or total cost)