I'm fine with having KillUserProcesses exist as a concept. There are some odd machines, like public terminals, where you would want to forbid any long-lived processes. I'm not okay with it being the default option. Yes, the distributions can change their default, but systemd's default in an endorsement that shouldn't be there.
The only things that will ever create a new scope are things like tmux, screen, and maybe some variant of nohup.
Here's the kinds of problems that misbehaving processes actually cause.
https://bugs.freedesktop.org/show_bug.cgi?id=94508#c10
And yes, KillUserProcesses reliably fixes crap like "hp-systray" from hanging your whole session in a way that isn't obvious to the user. If there's a deadlock when trying to log out, somethings gotta give otherwise your session will just persist forever.
False. People ran such softwares via the nohup command. No program modifications were needed. They still aren't.
As for the Gnome project though, that's just an example. I'm talking about cases where the application should terminate upon receipt of SIGHUP but doesn't. That default isn't changing, the method to avoid the default action is. Back when SIGHUP was created all software that wanted to ignore it needed to make a handler to avoid the new default behavior. If you want to be able to kill misbehaving processes that were supposed to terminate on SIGHUP then the design needs to change. There's no way to fix this without making some breaking change.
As to requiring others to work with it, your distribution is the one that's making you do that. systemd upstream has had killuserprocesses for a while now. It's just a configure option when building systemd. It's not like your distro is having someone else build packages for them, setting appropriate config options is entirely on them. Some distros are building systemd with that on by default, and some aren't.